Omg. Why does he do this to me?😢

I feel like I’m going crazy. Not sure how to explain …but I feel ā€œmentalā€ just like my boyfriend says I am…

So this is the 3rd time my bf avoids me when we argue. Like he doesn’t talk to me for 5-7 days.

3 weeks ago, I mentioned going to a Halloween party at my sister in laws. I wanted to be tinker bell. The theme was Disney….I found a cute outfit from online but the dress was a bit short…that’s the only reason why I think my bf was upset. I mentioned to him on October 1st I had ordered my costume. He got so pissed and told me he didn’t want to go and see me wearing that ā€œcrapā€ like really????

Guess what ladies? He didn’t talk to me for 9 days because I told him back ā€œlet’s be real…this is the type of females you be checking out online so stop being so controllingā€

Maybe I was being passive aggressive but I was so upset he’d ditch me at the party and not go. All my cousins were taking their SO. They all had cute costumes planned.

Well he goes 9 days ignoring me… I blocked him. He called me through his brothers cellphone and said I’m childish and mental for taking it this far. I told him ā€œthis silent game is getting annoyingā€

Isn’t 9 days too long??? Wtf?!

I ended up going to the party by myself :(

I took outfit pics and posted them.

Im getting random phone calls and I feel like it’s him. Idk if he saw them or if I should talk to him. Why does he leave and come back apologizing