Okay so me and my husband has been married for 6 years now we have 2 daughter together one is 2 years old,the other is 7 and I have a 11 Year old stepson from my husband.we are a beautiful family but I'm feel like I'm doing it along.

we had our ups and downs.who doesn't

But it seems to be the same up and downs every other month..my husband is a gamer and I don't care if he plays his games.he would come home from work tell me about his day. not really ask mine, I just tell him.eat his dinner maybe spend a hour with us then game time.. sometimes he'll ask the kids how their day just sometimes..he will game Mon thro sunday...I am a stay at home mom...I know it's my job to things around the house and I do..dishes,food,paying the bills,yard work, Christmas gifts, Birthday party's stuff,doc app ,bath time,getting and taking the kids to school, anything for the kids school it's me ect ect.okay so Iv been having back pains for two months now.well last week my husband seat up a fishing trip for Halloween weekend witch that's fine done care.at the same time he takes Off work that Friday to get his boat ready but couldnt get up to help take the kids for school, help me take his kids trunk or treat or even get them ready.. with 3 kids it's hard to keep the house clean so after we get back from trunk or treat my Cousin helped me clean up and she even seen how crappy it was.so over the years I just learned to shut up and talk about it when he ask you wants wrong.so I told him Saturday night.once again I get he can't ever made me happy ect ect..like I told him.it has nothing to do with keeping me happy. it's has something to do with taking care of your responsibilities .witch are the kids, this house, this marriage ect.so here we are, Tuesday.his not talking to me only if it's a question or whatever. he is cleaning up after himself and doing a little with the kids but you can tell his not happy...this is my husband cycle.he does a little then back to same crap..my question is.do you think I'm nagging to much or are we slowly growing apart?could he be unhappy and not see it yet..

I just feel I'm getting to the point of walking away and letting him figure it out.its just sad that our kids can tell you momma you do everything you need rest and why Cait daddy do this or where is daddy.my stepson I took it when he was 4 he now 11..his mother is not in his life but one phone call every other month.so dealing with him and taking that role while you do nothing but work and come home pisses me off..I quit working night shifts bc we did lose ourself.but I still came home and took care of the house 2 kids at the time...is my husband just lazy and maybe I just butter his biscuit for to long..