So, it’s my 22nd Birthday on Sunday. I’ve been talking to a guy for about 2 months now and we’ve been talking about meeting. I struggle with saving money, it always has to go on something else. The thing is, he wants to go shopping and I can’t afford it. I need to let him down gently, we’re both in College and busy with assignments. I should also say we’re long distance and he was wanting his mom to bring him here which would take him about 2 1/2 hours. I mean, we could meet up and just hang out but I want to be able to enjoy myself and I don’t want his mom to go out of her way to travel for that length of time. Can anyone give me something to say to him please? Thank you.