He fell asleep while i was giving him a BJ- Would you be offended

Today my man and I were getting ready to go to bed, we have work tomorrow and two kids so naturally we’re going to bed “early” at 9 pm. I lay down and start to cuddle him and he pulls down his boxers and put my hand on his d**k. I smiled at him then he pushes my head down like he always does when he wants a BJ. I don’t mind, I love doing that.

He was very much into it, making noises and mumbling “fuck” under his breath, pulling my hair etc. but midway through I notice he’s not as erect so I stop, and see that he’s asleep. I stay there looking at him seeing if he notices I stopped and he doesn’t. Then I pull his boxers over him and he’s still dead asleep snoring now. He didn’t finish and I’m just thinking to myself “wtf did he really just fall asleep” I woke him up and asked “really?” And he tried saying he didn’t fall asleep but he obviously did. I’m honestly pretty hurt. He says it’s never happened to him before which just makes it worse because am I really that bad at giving him head that he fell asleep on me but it’s never happened to him with other girls? I know we’re both tired but who falls asleep like that after Initiating it?

I’m already so self conscious after having our second baby 2 months ago, especially when it comes to having sex and this just knocks me down even more. He says I’m overreacting and it’s not a big deal but I feel like crying. I don’t even want to try to do that to him anymore. It kills the idea of oral sex for me knowing he fell asleep during it. Would you be offended ? Please be kind