My husband has been wanting to try anal and we have attempted a few times but I can’t help to get past the pain. There was one time we did it and I did get past it but since then it hurts and I freak out and ask him to stop.

I feel like the lube we are using isn’t helping keeping things lubricators enough either. Do you all have any certain lives you’d recommend?

We do foreplay and everything to warm me up and I really enjoy that.

I feel discouraged at this point because I do know from the one experience I really enjoyed it.

Is there ways I can get my body to relax and not tense up every time?