Can’t feel hubby’s penis sometimes…

Long story short, my husband is overweight. I have tried everything to encourage him to work out. I have equipment at home, supplements, routines that only take one hour to perform, offered to do leg day using extra shorts so he could gawk at me while we worked out… seriously, everything. I have offered healthy food, he doesn’t want it. Even the doctor told him he needed to workout and eat better, thought that would help coming from a professional but it didn’t.

During sex we are constricted to certain positions because of his belly, and they’re starting to get boring. It feels more like an effort to avoid his penis to slip out, instead of pleasure. I have told him this, and still nothing.

Yesterday we had sex and his weight has increased and tried missionary (me bottom) and because of his belly, I don’t know it’s like the penis retracts or something, but I could barely feel it, and since it’s small I supposed he’s feeling it all, but just him. I’m frustrated, we have used toys but I also want the real thing. I don’t know what else to do…