Would you be mad/hurt?

So, I’m pissed, so much so I cleaned my whole kitchen..

Over the last several weeks hubby has done things that make me feel like he thinks I’m a bad mother - an example would be today that really took it home. I had my son, had a good grip on him, and was gently flipping him upside down and bringing him upright. He loves it and giggles and laughs and makes faces. I told my hubby - look at his face when I do this, and walked over to hubby. I of course adjusted my grip again to be secure, checked myself with distance from any cabinets or countertops, etc, and positioned myself so that I could do this motion without banging my son into ANYTHING. (I’m always careful, even walking through doorways or etc. I’m always aware of where he is compared to walls and etc, so much so I bang myself into walls/door frames making sure he doesn’t. )

But what makes me so mad, is hubby told me to be careful, and it stacked with everything else he has done, made me feel that he doesn’t fully trust me. He of course insists that he will always call out any scenario he sees as dangerous. And I’m like… don’t you trust me to know and be careful??

I mean - it pops into my head ALL the time when my husband is holding our son, what he could do to hurt himself, but do I tell my husband to be careful? He might to x, and do y. NO, I trust my husband to have a good grip on him, and be aware of what our son is doing. So when he calls out what I see as 100% obvious, of course I’m always going to be careful..

It just feels like such a slap in the face..

Baby boys 6 month checkup a few days ago - he’s on the exam table right in front of me, I’m standing with my body touching the table, watching him, hands nearby, and talking to the doctor. Hubby was like “can you move him away from the edge?” Which was like what? Cause he was almost centered on the table and was no more near the edge that he was toward the wall.

There’s a bunch of other things, but it’s just been stacking and I’m just upset and feeling like he doesn’t trust me…

Am I just being hormonal or something - or do I have a right to be mad and hurt?