Hi ladies, I’m loving everyone’s gender reveal ideas I really wanted to keep this baby a surprise because it will be my last baby an the surprise would be lovely. But I’m struggling to believe I’m actually even pregnant and I think finding out what I’m haven will make it that bit more real? Especially with buying baby clothes?…

I’m so torn on what to do, my scan is in 2 weeks time I’ll be 21 weeks gone. Considering on asking the midwife to right down the gender and leave it in a envelope and leave it for as long as possible.

Anyone leaving their baby as a surprise have any advice to stop my nose getting the better of me?