What to do in a abusive relationship

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Today my boyfriend called me a fat whore and while I was driving he moved the steering wheel so I almost crashed..then after I pulled over he poured a water bottle all over me. I’m scared of him and I also love him but it’s making me really depressed 
How do I leave

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You should never, ever be afraid of someone you love. If you have a strong support system, immediately reach out and get out as soon as possible. But do not make your plans known. Safely gather all your important items and leave. You deserve better and no amount of “I love him” is worth risking your life over.

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If you live together you pack a bag when he is sleep/or out and leave. Go stay with a friend or family 
Delete and block him on everything

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He clearly doesn’t love you. You get your stuff and leave whilst he is out.

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He doesn’t love or respect you. Tell him it’s over forever. He’s gonna end up hurting you a lot more if you stay.

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I know how you feel .. I too am in an abusive relationship.   I have been name called and pushed and shoved and pinned down and punched.. I think abusive men are cowards and there is a special place in he'll for them. If you hit or push or a choke a woman you are the biggest coward and bully in the world.. Get out sweety.  That's what I'm doing bc they NEVER change. You will be in my prayers and please keep me in yours too.

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You may love him, but his behavior will never improve. It will escalate in aggression and violence. If you have literally anyone to reach out to, contact them ASAP. Ask if you can stay with your parents or a friend for a few days. If you have no one, look into a womens shelter and/or see if there are any domestic violence safe houses near you. You can see if you have enough to file a restraining order against him, but it might be better for your physical safety to just get as far away from him as you possibly can. Cut all ties with him and do not let him back in your life ever again. Not if he promises he’s changed, not if it’s been a year or more, not if he proposes, never ever get back with him. Abusive people like him almost never change.

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Get out of that relationship as soon as you can.... You may love him but he clearly doesn't love you or he wouldnt do those kind of things to you.

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If you're not living with him, I'd just stay away and text, sounds awful but you don't want to risk what could happen in person if he got upset

What to do in a abusive relationship

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