Ladies

…. So I’ve been married two years tomorrow. 7 years together.. I started a new job 5 months ago and just recently I’ve been meeting new people at work and gone out to have a couple drinks with them when we got off. Doing nothing wrong but having girl time. Well fast forward.. I hung out with my coworker at her place. My husband had my location and I told him I was going out with her and he ends up showing up to her house that night and beat her husband up out of no where because he was mad me and her were hanging.. I didn’t end up going home that night because I was terrified how upset he was that I actually have friends now that I hang out with and he has bad anger issues.. fast forward again… I got off Saturday night him and his dad were stalking me in the parking lot to make sure I was really with my friends like I told him I was… and I was but he ended up acting crazy causing a big scene hitting my car.. blocking me in so I couldn’t Leave I ended up calling the cops and he was gone before they came… I didn’t end up going home that night either because I’m terrified for my life. Basically he doesn’t trust me. He doesn’t want me to be happy. He doesn’t want me to have friends. I was honest and told him exactly where I was. His quote to me was “if I can’t have you noone can”. I am hurt because I do love him well loved him but I can’t be around someone who’s toxic and won’t let me have girl time or me time in general with always wanting to be around me. He constantly checks my phone, text me 24/7 I can’t do anything I feel like I’m stuck. I’m scared. I don’t know if I can do it anymore. I told him I wanted to go to my moms for a week to take my mind off things.. to think about things and he got pissed at me for that. I love him.. but it’s so toxic and I’m terrified of my life at this point. What would you do? I don’t wanna have to fear living. He also told me he was gonna make me quit my job bc he doesn’t like the people there and all this other crazy shit.