I'm 12 days late. I've taken two tests and both were negative. So how do I know when I'm fertile? It's always after my period but does everything get pushed back or I'm fertile again after my missed period? Do I test again?? I've never been late in my life always normal every month.

Also yesterday my bf's cousin who rented a room from us and was like his brother passed away. He was 32. He wouldn't go to the hospital when he got sick and was so stubborn. We just feel lost right now. This is the fifth death I've gone through since August.