Confused

Melanie • TTC our rainbow baby 🌈💛 one angel baby in heaven 😇

I’m sorry for the long post in advance. So my periods are irregular but I looked back at my periods this year & most of them were 40-50 days apart. It’s not really great but that’s way better than it has been in the past. Anyways I’m on day 36 & I started spotting yesterday but haven’t bled or anything since the one time I wiped & bled a little. It was pinkish. My boobs have been hurting for over a week now like terribly. They typically start hurting a few days before my period but not this bad at all. My cat stepped on the girls earlier & I almost cried 🤣😭 I’ve had a constant headache the past few days, super emotional, & very gassy today. I took a test bc I bought some before I started spotting today. I thought I saw a faint line but not enough to get a good pic. Has anyone ever been in the same boat? Also I’m not even sure if or when I ovulated & I haven’t been keeping up with sexual activity. Sorry if this is confusing & long but I don’t have anyone to ask & google really isn’t helping me at this point 😅 TIA 🙂