SO has a problem with daycare

he does not want the kids in daycare.. we have a 2 year and and 10 month old. he’s an over the rode truck driver so he’s gone 2-3 weeks at a time and home for 3-5 days.. I have to work and his mom doesn’t want to watch them even though she told me she would bc she doesn’t work and sits at home all day but whatever it isn’t her responsibility anyway. so I have to put them in daycare.. he doesn’t like that and is pissed bc they still have to go even when i’m not working. which gives me a lot of time to get things done that I can’t with them and a break of course. he’s not understanding to any of this at all. anyone else’s SO was like this? he wants me to quit working and be a SAHM but I don’t want to do that right now I need a peace of mind and being in the house with the kids all day depresses me.. I have my kids all day everyday unless im working I never get breaks.