Please Give Me Advice! 😫

I’ve been talking to a guy for 3 months. He surprised me yesterday and said he got us tickets to see my favourite artist in concert on the 14th of December. We’re long distance and have never met. I trust him with my heart, his parents know we’ve been speaking. We have a genuine connection. The thing is, he told me last night that he’s gonna stay in a hotel to save him from travelling back home. He asked me to stay with him for the weekend so we could hang out more. I also have to travel a bit to meet him but I don’t drive and I personally do not like public transport. I’m in the middle, he’s bought these tickets and I’m so grateful but on the other hand, I’m having money issues right now and I can’t afford to have ‘days out’. Even if I did stay with him in the hotel, I would have to contribute by paying g half.. Which is understandable but I don’t have the money right now. Can anyone help me please? He wants an answer by tonight 😫