BFP bullies ?

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I can't stand obvious lovely faint BFPs & then you have those women that comment "nothing is there" or they vote "no" 
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​I know everyone sees different things, but it's so obvious! I'm not sure if some ladies are just jealous or straight up negative. 
​I'm so happy for the ladies that get there BFPs ☺️ Why isn't everyone the same ..

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I've kinda noticed this too. But obviously I don't wanna say more than that as people on Glow like to shoot others down all the time.

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Why can't you tolerate the truth? People are going to say I if they don't see anything. People are more than willing to congratulate when they actually see a line. Honestly is the best policy it's not ourlr if jealousy hon. Someone else's BFP has no affect on your own fertility do there is no need to be "mean" only a need to be honest.

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Some people also clearly post definate positives in the faint line threads just to get attention and appraise. Maybe some vote no just to add doubt. I have noticed what you mean however- every one might have different idea on what faint is, but hmmmm.

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This is why I think the poll questions are nice bc others don't have to phrase them at all... Which I think makes it easier for everyone.  I think it's hard, because I don't think people mean to sound harsh maybe just being honest.  I always try to add a little something when saying "I don't see anything..." But that's just me.

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Oh it really annoys me when I vote BFP for obvious second lines and I see people have voted no.. What the actual !!

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I don't understand how that's not tolerating the truth? For women that dig/assume  for faint lines on their own test are so quick to say there is nothing on someone else's. I said "some women".  It obviously has nothing to do with my own fertility.
​I said what I said, bye.

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Sometimes the pic doesn't show up on some so maybe they are saying no to see the votes?? And sometimes there may be a line but it looks a little sketchy like a evap line I could see saying test again? I just can't see people doing it on purpose??? Seems a little disturbing to think that people would be that hurtful and really what do they gain?

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Sometimes if you've been trying for a while and struggled its hard to believe it when there's a line. Particularly if you've had miscarriage or chemical pregnancies in the past. I don't think people are looking for attention by posting positives, they are looking for reassurance.

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In the end if their line is there or not, they're either gonna be pregnant or not, so anyone's opinions negative or positive won't matter! But yes, I see this all the time.

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Trueeeeeee

BFP bullies ?

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