A girlfriend of mine and i each have one kid - and she is fairly early on in her second pregnancy. She had a miscarriage earlier this year, and this pregnancy was unplanned and unexpected.

She texted me tonight that she started spotting today - and i just knew she was devastated. Of course she is staying positive and i reassured it can be common, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong, but -

How do i possibly offer her any comfort if something were to go wrong with this pregnancy ? I am at a loss, not because im not a compassionate woman.. But because i want to say the right things. I want to be there for her in a real, authentic, way. Nothing takes away this kind of pain, I know that.. But how can I really be there for her?

I didnt know where I should post this tbh but we're all moms here.. I just wanna be a good mom friend and be there for her if she needs me.