Hi am a first time mom. I will return to work when my baby is almost 3 months. Basically I’m having a hard time deciding whether to commit to a daycare or have a family friend watch him full-time. Looking for insight when it comes to comparing these options from experienced mamas.

I have a daycare right across the parking lot from my job that is able to take him. My coworker has her two-year-old in the daycare and has nothing but good things to say. They give updates and send pictures throughout the day. my main concern is him getting sick all the time from daycare. The daycare sees babies up to elementary ages. It is very structured which is a good thing, but I don’t mind free styling in the beginning I feel like that helps with growth and imagination in children.

We also have a family friend who is a stay at home mom she has three kids of her own ages 3, 2, and 1. A little bit about her background- growing up her mom was also a stay at home parent who basically ran a daycare in her house in our community growing up so she has a lot of experience with babies and children. She and her family are pretty dependable and seem to share the same values as we do. Everyone in the household is vaccinated (including COVID) as well. She is also able to babysit our baby full-time.

Again, Just wondering what your guy’s experiences are and opinions when it comes to Day Care versus a family friend. Any input is appreciated thank you!