Done with this joke of a marriage

So sick of my husband and this marriage. Been together almost 9 years but married for a year and a half and been nothing but arguments after arguments. I’m over it. We have 3 kids and he works 12 hour days on the weekends and is home 4 days a week with the kids so I can work. He drinks 5 out of 7 days and I’ve asked for 3 years now for him to stop drinking and going to bed at 6am. I get nothing but attitude and I’m just simply over it. I checked his statements and he’s spent $115 from 11/22 till today the 29th in just beer and this is the response I get when I was at the store and texted him. Am I In the wrong? Im literally two secs from filing divorce so fucking over it.

UPDATE

I do want to clarify that he drinks when we go to bed so I’d say between 11pm to about 530 am about 4-5 days a week. Keep in mind I leave for work at 8am. This drinking shit has been happening since we were 18. We are fucking 28 now. It’s pathetic. I’m sick of it. I’ve asked, cried and begged for the last 3 years when our first was born. Offered help etc. nothing has changed. It’s honestly pathetic. Any sort of convo bringing this up starts a huge ass argument. He wouldn’t even stop when I begged him to when I was pregnant. That’s how fed up I am. I was 37-39 weeks wondering I may have to drive myself in case I went into labor. I’m over it nothing clearly will change and I tried for 3 years that’s all I can say. I will not be married to someone that childish and selfish. He sees it as I’m the problem so that already tells me where he stands on this issue. Oh and he spent another $25 on beer today once again.

2nd UPDATE

For the ones wondering why I married him if I knew how he was. We been together since we were 18 OBVIOUSLY during your early 20s you drink and party. I get that but for someone to continue this after our kids are born is the problem. He only works 3 days the days he’s not working is when he getting trashed in the middle of the night. I leave at 8am for work. You really think that’s a good parent to leave your kids that are under 3 with someone who not coherent? No. These kids depend on him. He not just drinking one beer to wind down he’s drinking a six pack a day then getting trashed and leaving the sinks on and almost flooding the house. Or leaving the oil on overnight. Every morning my kitchen looks like I just threw a freaking party with trash everywhere. I’m just done with it all. Love him but I deserve happiness too.