Friendly advice

When I see people say well why didn't you use protection? An in the post the person never mentioned if they did or didn't like why assume they were just being unprotected?? I was on the pill, checking my cycles so I didn't have sex when I was ovulating, an breastfeeding(was told it can work as additional bc) an still ended up pregnant. Don't be rude to someone by assuming they weren't being responsible. If people aren't planning a pregnancy then yes they should be using some form of bc. Ofcourse there's betters forms than others an ofcourse we can use more than the ones we used. But don't make them feel worse when I'm sure they are already upset they are in the situation they are in or they are trying to handle their situation. Some people may ask for advice (adoption or abortion) others may say hey I'm gonna be happy an accept this. Be understanding to both parties. Us as women need to stand by eachother, be open minded an try to support eachother the best we can. Cause some of us may not have any support outside this app. Just keep it in mind before being judgmental or rude...