Kinda sacred

Jenawa
So me and my hubby are ttc #3 we have been struggling for a yr now doing everything that we can...... I have been to the dr about it and he ran some test said I was fine but wanted my hubby to get his counts checked so we went to the dr for him and the dr checked him over and then checked his urine and it came back with high amounts of blood in it....... He is freaked out and upset with me because I made him go to the dr and I feel so bad about it but we have been wanting another baby and we weren't having any success I haven't even looked about what causes the blood because I don't think I want to know so on the 15th he has to get a scope ran into his penis to look and make sure he doesn't have any cancer I'm seriously scared any advise