How long ttc ?

Hi all- we are ttc our rainbow baby after miscarrying in august. How long did it take you all? For each baby or current?

Baby 1 - 3 months ttc ended in miscarriage

Baby 2 - 1 month ttc baby boy

Baby 3 - 4 months ttc baby boy

Baby 4 - 3 months ttc ended in miscarriage this past august.

We took two months of not trying after losing

That baby and we are currently on cycle five now… (so two months of not preventing but not trying and the last 2 times we tried very hard failed. So cycle 5 is where we are at)

I’m started to feel super defeated.

Also we tried sex everyday in the fertile window. Didn’t work. Wes every other day in the fertile window didn’t work, however we only tried each of those once. Anyone have good advice on what’s better?