20 WK & 2 days… was really hoping for a girl but surprise it’s a BOY 👦💙

I will say I was disappointed.. my boyfriend and I were really wanting a girl .. he is disappointed too but we are both happy he’s healthy and growing well.

I know it’s not talked about much but gender disappointment is a thing and if you just found out the gender of your little one and it’s not what you expected I think this should be a safe space to talk about it so it can be normalized.

I’m not completely unhappy since when I was younger I would tell people I want boy one day. But I was so sure it was a girl lol. When the US tech asked me what I thought it was I said “I’ve been feeling like it’s a girl” and she paused and went “…well” that’s when my heart sank a little I knew right then and there I was wrong lol. 😒🥺 😭 but my doctor assured me that being a boy mom is a wonderful thing and I know many women who are boy moms that love it. So I’m happy and a little sad at the same time. I’ll get over it but I wanted everyone to know it’s ok to feel a bit sad about the reveal! Just know it will all be okay and they will love you and you will love them no matter what. 👨‍👩‍👦🤰🏻

💞Still blessed. 💞

Now to think about names…. 🤔😬