When did you know?

Question

When did you know you were ready for a new relationship after being in an abusive one previously? What are some tips that helped you heal?

Answer

When I stopped searching for validation and comfort and wanted to just find myself again. I lost tiny bits and pieces of me in all those pieces of shit that beat me and stabbed me over the years. 
someone amazing actually just came to me years later. I had seen the difference between the men I was with and this man Because I had let myself heal and wasn’t interested anymore in anyone other than myself…. I was able to see clearly…. So when someone beautiful came along although I wasn’t ready or interested immediately I was in the right mind set to actually see him properly. See him. As an individual. Not as a potential perpetrator… I could see him. My now husband and father of my third child.

When did you know?

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