Husband and my parents

So my husband and Parents do not get along. It's been a year without them having any communication.

I am really struggling with it because my parents make me feel so guilty and put pressure on me to do things without my husband that I don't want to do. (Like take the kids to their house Christmas day and leave him home alone)

I am 100% on my husband's side, my parents are not toxic but definitely have toxic traits and are extremely controlling. They still try to control my life and if I don't do what they want I 'get in trouble'.( I am 40)

It all got worse when we had our baby and they started coming over whenever they wanted. My husband said something to them (also to my mum who said 2 days after I had my baby... When am I going to lose my stomach, also that pregnancy made me ugly)

They were still welcomed to our house but had only certain times to come, and when they came they never greeted and completely ignored my husband.

My husband is now done with them. But it really hurts. I don't know what to do this consumes my life and I don't know how to be happy with a situation like this.

Any advice?