Can you move on from cheating

My husband was on a work trip and was calling and texting multiple sex workers. I found out. He lied.

It went from “that’s not my phone” to “those screenshots are fake” (the girl sent me screenshots) to now him saying he knew she was a scammer and he wanted to mess

with her.

Nothing physical happened, I know that for sure and she confirmed. But him texting and calling them is enough. He’s saying the intent wasn’t there and he was just bored, but he gave her the address to where he was staying.

I have not decided yet whether or not I want to stay and if the relationship is even worth all the work. I love him, but it’s all too much. It’s only been a few days since I found out and I do realize that I need time to process before I make any decisions. I’m thinking couples therapy would be a good start and I can go from there, but I’m not sure how all this is gonna play out.

He is remorseful, keeps apologizing and saying he will do anything I want him to do to fix this. But again, I’m not sure if I’ll be able to move past this.

Anyone has experience with this and can share/give advice?

Update to say: no, he was on a business trip abroad. I’m going back and forth between thinking I can forgive and move on and thinking I don’t even wanna try. Right now, I don’t feel anything towards him but resentment, he will be coming back in a few days and I haven’t talked to him since, even though he’s been blowing up my phone. I did, however, get on a dating app. Just set up my profile and got over 150 messages, which reminded me that I am a 25-year old attractive woman and I don’t need to settle for less than what I know I deserve. It is truly a roller coaster of emotions and I might change my mind and want to work it out by tomorrow, but for now... I don’t think it’s possible. And yes, I agree with those of you who said that it was intentional. I do think he was consciously seeking somebody to have fun with and using the opportunity since he was abroad. I probably wouldn’t have struggled with forgiving him, had he not lied and if it wasn’t intentional and planned.