What a shit day….

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I had my consult with my doctor this morning. A lot of bad news…. First, I was diagnosed with PCOS and Infertility I was told I need to go for further testing of my glucose levels based on what they could see in my blood work. I need two vaccines MMR & Chicken pox I have to wait 2 months to try and get pregnant again after that. I always was prescribed letrozole but I was told timed intercourse is a waste of time because my husbands morphology is low so medicated IUI with trigger shot would be pretty much my only chance of ever getting pregnant. I’m so lost I’ve been crying non stop all day. I am so angry with myself. I am going to start saving so we can begin IUI in February and pray it works. IVF is not an option for us (personal reasons) so I might just be childless for the rest of my life… unless a miracle happens

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It took me a long time to accept, but my husband and I have accepted the fact we may never have a biological child, maybe no child at all. We were told 6 years ago we needed IVF ICSI. We couldn’t afford it, so they let us do medicated cycles and times intercourse (injectables some cycles, some time trigger) They wouldn’t even let us try IUI due to my husband semen analysis results. Finally a few years ago after doing treatment with Urologist & RE and help of FertilAid for Men, Count Boost and Motility Boost we were able to get number up enough for our doctor to let us try IUI. Unfortunately, no success. Done 16 medicated cycles, no pregnancy. BUT we proved the doctors wrong, and we’ve been pregnant many times only on natural cycles! Sadly every pregnancy has ended but don’t think it will never happen! Miracles do happen! Even when your told “this is your only option” you never know what life has in store! I’m very sorry for the news, I know it’s not something you wanted to hear. But don’t let it get you down, do what you need to do and keep pushing forward!

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Sometimes the answers to our questions are not what we want to hear… My heart goes out to you, keep faith and you will have your so much loved and wanted baby. Maybe make a go fund me for your iui I would love to donate

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I’m so sorry i pray God blesses you with a baby 🙏🏽

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IUI took a lot of the fun out of TTC, but I’m five weeks now after my first round of IUI. It could work for you!  Before we did IUI my husband and I sat down and talked about what we could afford and settled on three rounds, and mentally wrapped our heads around the fact that if it didn’t work after three, we would let it go and move on. Having a concrete “this many tries” helped us to come to grips with the potential for not having a success.

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I’m so sorry to hear this. I know firsthand how disappointing infertility can be. In case you don’t know this IUI is far more affordable than IVF. My clinic charged $400 for the actual procedure (this doesn’t count meds and ultrasounds). I got pregnant twice via IUI and have one healthy 5 month old rainbow baby to show for it. Keep on persevering through this, because the “reward” at the end is so much sweeter ❤️ I thank god every day that my husband and I didn’t give up, because this little blessing of ours has been worth ALL of the patience, tears, and disappointment. One day at a time for now and so not give up. Sending you a huge hug!

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I’m so sorry! A lot of us here know what it’s like. I was diagnosed with PCOS too, and I couldn’t believe it when the doctor said I needed those vaccines and couldn’t even try for a couple of months after having them. TTC can be such a difficult time. I found that letrozole worked for me, and helped me to eventually get pregnant. Good luck with everything!

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