Venting and needing advice
Hey girls so I just need to vent it’s a Pretty long story. I started dating this guy that intentionally gotten me pregnant after I told him I didn’t want kids right now but if I was to get pregnant I will not get an abortion. So when I finally found out I was pregnant during the time he was staying with me He wanted me to get an abortion and I told him no so afterwards through out the time we was staying together our relationship turned for the worst. I found out he’s been cheating and lying to me the whole time so I kicked him out and we didnt talk for about 2 weeks after the break he had reached out and of course I took him back but things weren’t the same he always wanted to fuss and fight I couldn’t take it anymore so I gave him a choice to own up and take accountability and fix our relationship or leave me alone and he read my message and didn’t respond until he wanted too which ended up being 2 days so I had enough and ignored him back when he decided to call and message me.
During the time I was ignoring him I ended up finding his twitter that he was hiding me and on his twitter it revealed everything including another girl twitter with pictures of her at his house during the time we was trying fix things and when he was blowing my phone up.I also found out he had sex with me and her unprotected the same night. So I continued to ignore him and then one day I woke up to a message saying that I was a hoe and that I am a fucked up person that didn’t care about him and he didn’t want anything to do with me after I posted I was single. So every since then I let go of wanting a relationship and just wanted to strictly co parent so I let things cool down and sent him information about appointments and pictures of the ultrasounds and of course he ignored me every since time. We had our argument October 27th and it’s now December 9th and I still haven’t heard anything from him but during this whole time he’s been stalking my social media watching every Instagram story and purposely liking my Tweets about healing and moving on…I’m not sure what to do I’m so hurt. Th girl I found out about is the same girl he’s with now and it’s like me and the baby doesn’t exist anymore but he literally watches what I post daily….he’s 29 years old. I just don’t understand how a grown man could act like this.
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