Would this make you upset ?

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I walk to work it’s about 7- 10 min walk and sometimes my husband gets out of work around the Same time or earlier than me. But he NEVER offers to pick me up. Like
Today he did not work (only for a little bit) and it’s sooo cold and he didn’t even bother to pick me up. And no I don’t tell him to pick me up but he doesn’t even bother to ask.

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Well clearly there is no communication.  If you've never asked him then how would he know? 
I'm very independent and my husband knows if I need help I ask. Men aren't mind readers.

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A 7-10 minute walk sounds like it would be a waste of time to drive there to pick you up tbh. But if you want him to pick you up, ask. I’m sure he wouldn’t mind, he probably just doesn’t think it’s that far to walk.

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I would be mad if I asked and he said no, but if I didn’t ask I don’t think I’d be mad if it wasn’t offered.

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this would hurt my feelings more than anything

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My husband would never think of it on his own. If i asked him, he would be more than happy.

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Does he know that you’d prefer to be picked up? Perhaps he is under the impression you like the little walk. Unless you’ve asked him, I don’t see the problem

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I ask for what I want and don’t expect people to read my mind 💁🏼‍♀️

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I mean... you didn’t ask so how is he to know you want to be picked up? Yes it would be nice to have him think of it himself, but he didn’t. If you’re upset you need to talk to him and tell him. Playing those kinds of mind games is only doing your marriage harm. Communication is much healthier

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Stop looking for a reason to be mad. My husband drives past my work as Starbucks every day and I still have to hint at him that a coffee pick-me-up would be very much appreciated. And we’ve been together 10 years 😂
If you didn’t ask then you can’t be mad.

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If you never asked, how would he know? No this wouldn’t make me mad- if I want to be picked up, I’d ask.

Would this make you upset ?

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