Sex and Lasting Longer

Ok ladies. I am new to having sex. I waited until marriage. My husband did not, but was willing to wait for me. We just got married last week. Our first time was great for both of us! Second time, fabulous! Third time, he came way too fast. Fourth, better! Fifth, I barely even got warmed up. The common factor in the 3rd and 5th were that he was on top. I was on top the other times. I like being in control, don’t get me wrong, but a girl needs to be told what to do sometimes, if ya know what I mean. Is this normal for someone that hasn’t had sex in 3-4 years? What are some ways we can get him to last longer?

I know he can’t help it and I’m not mad about it, I just have some sexual frustrations that get built up that aren’t able to be expressed.