How come?

Question

How come some mothers don't form an immediate bond with their newborn???
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​I was watching a movie called A Mother and A Child. And this women who couldn't have a child of her own, finally adopted a baby girl. She was struggling to take care of her and after like a week or two in the movie she then she turned to her mother and said, "I don't love her."  
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​Why is this? What causes this? And if it's normal, how long does it usually last?

Answer

Well on the contrary it could be that the baby wasn't biologically hers she didn't carry her , me I could love a baby that's adopted . Some woman can't bond with a baby they birthed it is usually due to PPD although not always , some trashy whores sorry I keep it 110 % miss their independence and get bitter towards their innocent child , to little to late to realize you weren't ready or don't want to be a Mother and it goes both ways , men too don't bond with their babies for many reasons psychologically speaking and 1 reason (jealousy) ? Now that is sick !

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Lots of things can cause this or a multiple of reasons. Postpartum depression, exhaustion from lack of sleep, maybe being in pain still from a difficult delivery or c section, maybe from having difficulties soothing a colicky baby etc. Since this baby was adopted, maybe parenthood is different than what she expected etc.  The important thing is, she went to her Mom and told her how she felt. That is the first step to getting help for herself and her child. Good for her for seeking help

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I call it the baby blues.... Its normal . Some people have it... Some people dont. I have two girls... And for my first girl... I had the baby blues... But it only lasted for a couple days... Two days passed and i realized that i created this blessing.. She needs me more than ever and i just snapped out of it. I had my swcond girl... And no baby blues for me. My sister had her first child. First girl and ahe hadthebaby blues foe almost a week ... She didnt know what to do but i was there to hwlp her get through it, remind her that her baby needs her and its okay to fwel the way she was feeling... I was there. 
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​Its always nice to have someone you know and trust there by yourside when your goijng through baby blues.  
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​Hang in there :)

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Postpartum depression maybe she was just depressed that she couldn't have the child on her own

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