so i lost my virginity to my husband when we got married 7 months ago. he wasn’t a virgin when we got married. we’ve had some times when we’re having sex and certain positions aren’t working and then he loses his boner & it’s hard for him to get it back. in moments like that i always feel like it’s my fault & that i’m terrible at sex compared to girls he’s been with in the past. he keeps saying that’s not true and he doesn’t think that but it’s hard for me to believe him considering most of the time it happens when i’m on top.. i was wondering if any of you have advice on how to be better at certain positions (especially on top) that’ll be better for him and myself. thank you in advance! it really messes with my self confidence whenever those moments happen. :/