Do you ever feel like s*x is a chore while trying?

Question

I love s*x but sometimes it’s hard when we are both tired and then you see that you are at peak ovulation. We get it done lol but it doesn’t put you in mode when you feel forced because you only have a certain amount of time 😕

Answer

Yeah absolutely! It was really impacting me mentally and my husband. We started to give up hope and I was in the mindset it wasn't going to happen so accept it and enjoy other things, then we finally became pregnant

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I found that both times we got pregnant we were both in a great mood and great place. 
We were happy and not feeling like it was a chore. Which it definitely can while TTC. 
It took us two years to get a successful pregnancy. The first was a miscarriage with twins. 
But both times we concieved, I tracked but we just went with the flow of when we had sex.
Sometimes I mental health break while ttc is absolutely necessary.

Answer

If it feels like a chore, don’t do it. There will be plenty of chores involved once you have a baby, so at least let the sex part be enjoyable. Also the stress you’re putting yourself through to make it happen will ensure that it DOESN’T HAPPEN. Why do you think high schoolers get pregnant so easily? Because the last thing on their minds is that they might get pregnant. Have sex because it feels good.

Do you ever feel like s*x is a chore while trying?

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