Ok so hear me out we are pregnant with baby #4 and are super excited im about 11 weeks! My family knows we are expecting and couldn't be happier! My husband's family still doesn't know. Our littlest one is only 5 months we planned on having our last two back to back. My in laws have told us on multiple occasions to take care of ourselves because the last thing we need is another baby. They have asked when we are going to get snippet and we just kinda shake it off and say we're not sure yet. Very uncomfortable since its personal and non of there business. We are financially stable have our own house and don't ask them for help with our kids. I'm unsure on how to tell them we are expecting since I know they will not be very excited initially. My mother in law was telling us just yesterday how expensive it is to have kids even though and we are completely aware of it and already have money put aside for our kids.