So I’ll be 31 in a month. My bf and I talk about our future all the time, I know there is a ring coming soon and we agreed that I would get off my BC next month. So our future is look f bright. Well I am a planner and worrier which is why I’m asking. We want a bigger house, in a nicer neighborhood and closer to our parents so when the babies come. But I also grew up with money being tight so never had a quince or anything fancy. I’ve never dreamt of having a wedding cuz of how much it costs, but I know I could have r a small non expensive wedding because I want a special day to remember. My bf is torn too, he wants the wedding but also would prefer to use the money on a house. We live comfort, money isn’t tight but we don’t spend crazy. I’m just worried that either one I chose I might have regrets… looking for input for people in my shoes