so me and my boyfriend have been dating for one year and have known each other for over a year and a half. ever since we’ve met he’s preached against vaping and alcohol. he’s always known i don’t have anything against either of those things because i happen to have tried them both and don’t mind it. but, a week before our 1 year, we were drinking and he admitted that he does vape. he admitted it after multiple lies about it. for example, he had been to a party a month or two before and i saw a video of him vaping and drinking. i was surprised to see him doing those things and i brought it up- i mentioned how it was so weird to see him doing that stuff when he preached so much against it. he got all defensive about it and we had an argument- he said he just tried it once and that his friend kind of just handed it to him to try. i told him i have no issue with it, i just commented on something i noticed. anyways, fast forward to the night he told me the truth. we were with his friends and they all were vaping except him. i figured he really didn’t vape. he sent me out of the room twice to do really stupid things you usually wouldn’t make someone leave the room randomly to do, like making me hang up his sweatshirt or getting him a soda. i felt weird about it too. a couple hours later, he admitted he does vape. i was furious. for some reason i just couldn’t get over the fact that he had lied to me all this time. we had a huge argument about it. he told me he kept making me leave the room so that his friends could give him a vape and so he can use it. i was so embarrassed, like everyone was in on it. i felt like he was a different person, i had never seen him do anything like that. honestly, i’m still mad about it and i feel like i trust him a little less. am i being dramatic for being so upset about it?