What’s your deadline?

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When you’re dating someone, until they ask you to became their partner. How long do you give it? How long is too long? I recently started dating someone it’s been 3 months and I never had a problem with our paste until now, I’m ready I just don’t know if this is a fair amount of time?

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I'm confused on what you're asking here. Do you mean how long into the talking phase until you make it official that you are a couple? If so, then I would just straight up ask the other person if that's what they want out of this. If so great, if not then you know it's time to move on if that's what you want but not them.

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Why are you waiting on someone else to have that conversation? If you want an adult relationship then you had better be willing and able to have serious conversations with that person.

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Ask him “where do I stand with you” or “what are your feelings for me” etc.

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My husband and I dated for about 3-4 months before we made it “official,” but we were both content with that at the time. If you’re feeling like you want more of an official commitment, then don’t wait for him to bring it up. Just have a talk about the direction of your relationship.

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3 months is enough time to know if you want a committed relationship. If you truly want that relationship than you’ll start the talk first to see where he’s at.
Than you make your decision rather or not to go forward or find someone else. Good luck

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…well I confirm about the direction and goal of the relationship by the second date- I date with purpose not to mess around. If he doesn’t make it official why wouldn’t I initiate the conversation. That’s how you start and stay on the same page

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Why can’t you ask

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I think if you want a exclusive committed relationship with him then you need to talk to him. I dont think there is a definite timline on when to be "official" if you feel like your ready and wanting that from him then you need to talk to him and find out if he's feeling the same way or if he even wants that.

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