How do you know if you're really in love ?

amanda
No seriously, many of my girlfriends now are all booed up and been for a while for like 2+ years, and they swear they in love. Now, we're all Still young( 19, 20 ) and I get that you don't necessarily know "what love is " at a young age but my gf's seem to have found love quick lol. Now for me on the other hand I haven't been to fond of knowing what love feels like, about February this year I was dating the guy I thought I really loved, like I would get the whole butterflies thing, constant thinking about him when we were apart and everything and then boom August we fell apart, & I don't know what happened . Crazy thing is I wasn't upset when we broke up, so I'm wondering if I actually did love him or not?