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AM I a bad mom for having anxiety about having twins ? 
I don’t know why but my fear is so bad I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m 7 weeks with my fourth baby. My youngest is only 9 months. 
I just have this strong feeling it could be twins. I hope I’m wrong idk if I could do it. 
Am I a bad mom that I really hope it’s not twins. 
Twins do run in my family. I’m also looking pregnant early. Obviously all this is fear until our ultrasound Monday. 
But I have mommy guilt.

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No way!! I’m having that same feeling!! I’m only 5 weeks but twins also run in my family and I already gave 2 kids so twins just sound so overwhelming!

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No way, I’m a twin myself and I’d be so anxious about being pregnant with twins! Especiallyyyyyyy since I have two littles already.

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Everything happens for a reason and you are here to handle what life throws your way 🙏🏼

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I don’t think your a bad mom.  I would be devastated if I were having twins.  I’d love them, and I’d get over that feeling obviously, but I would dread having 2 babies at once.  The baby stage is by far my least favorite stage, especially the newborn part…first 3 months were hell with my son.  I love him to death, and I’d do it again to have him, but I hated it.  Tell me I’m having 2, and I’d want to run and hide 😂

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Twins are SO hard. It's normal to feel scared or have anxiety. If it's twins, youll love them anyways.

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No I don’t blame you! I’m pregnant with my second and I’m so worried it’s twins.. my hcg levels were 91,000 at 6 weeks and I’m totally freaking out too

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Every day I look at my fiancé and go “but what if it’s twins?” Twins don’t run on either of our sides of the family but with my hormones being SO out of control and having a decent amount of cramping and sleeping hours and hours of the day and still sleeping through the whole night and all of the symptoms I have and how noticeable they are at just 6w4d I just can’t stop thinking it might be twins… tbh if it’s twins my fiancé is getting snipped 😂 that’s it for me thanks.

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I have 3 sets of spontaneous twins on my moms side. I know the possibility is strong. I’m also 34. I’m still nursing my 2 year old and didn’t get a period back until September. Got pregnant quickly. So I feel like my ovaries are having a going out of business sale. 
I really don’t want twins. Where I live it’s illegal for a midwife to attend a twin or breech home birth. My first birth was a hospital birth that traumatized me and I refuse to give birth there again. But with twins or breech I’d likely end up with a c section where I live. Which terrifies me.

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i have the same feeling! it seems like everyone around me is so excited and i’m the only one scared. it’s my turn in my family to have twins and my fiancé is a twin and i seem to be the only one worried about it 🤣

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Nope. With every child I go into the first ultrasound praying for 1 lol

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