Is he nervous?

Anon

During sexy time, my man makes really weird sounds and crazy faces. It’s not sexy at all. It’s like he’s trying really hard to be funny..but it’s not funny it’s kinda of a turn off. So tonight he like started playing with my kitty 🐱 as foreplay cuz sex was on the menu tonight 😏. So he is fingering me and like mindlessly doing it, the way you might play with your hair without even realizing it. Now it’s important to note that I’m trying to be patient with him. He’s not a virgin and is nearly 30. He has sexual experience but not much experience with Actually pleasuring a woman. So he is still learning and he is very sensitive. So while he is diddling with my clit, I start to feel weird. It’s like if you ask someone to scratch your back and they are almost at the spot but not close enough or scratching hard enough to scratch the itch. Or like if someone tickled your back with a feather instead of scratching it.

Anyway, I make a face (I can’t help it, I’m soo uncomfortable at that point) be notices and says what’s wrong? I say “ well bae, I don’t want to be rude, and I know you are trying-“ I reach out and caress him gently while I speak and b4 I can finish my sentence, he takes my hands off of him and says “don’t touch me” 😟 he proceeds to pout. Andddd so we never even had sex. Idk what I did wrong. He refused to explain what the hell that was all about and said he was tired. Thank goodness for the rose 🌹😏.

But what’s going on here? Does he act this way because is is nervous or embarrassed?

Feedback anyone. Idk how to handle this? I mentioned that’s he’s very sensitive because when he’s upset he does pout and shut down sometimes and is unable to articulate his feelings. What do I do? Ik really trying to have a normal sex life with the man I love.

Below are some of the faces he makes:

He rubs his hands like a fly. I can’t makes this up.