How can I make him last longer?

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My fieoncé and I have been together nearly 5 years. I was his first, and that first time it lasted for hours (I was seriously shocked and thought wow if he lasted this long this time what's it going to be like when he builds up his endurance?) well to my surprise, the next time we had sex it was so fast. Kind of what you would have expected from someone who has only had sex twice now. Anyway I assumed over time he would get to the point where he could last longer. He makes up for it in fore-play but it's just not the same. Does anyone know how I can help him last longer? He has tried getting off in the shower before but then he has to recover for so long we end up giving up. I thinking when we're married and able to do it daily and without condoms it will start lasting longer but I'm not sure... Help? Please

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Have you tried prolonging cream or uh, well for lack of better terminology cock rings? If not I'd suggest a trip to the adult store and getting both. Use the desensitization/prolonging cream carefully though, you only use a tiny bit and it has to dry before sex or you will be affected too.

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Get him to stop each time just before he comes. Wait a minute or two and go again. If you keep doing this, it will help.

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Some men just have premature ejaculation. I was in a relationship for 5 years, my first one, before I realized that. We tried everything, creams, pills, pre masturbation, cock rings, oral sex before hand. We even had sex 6 times a day just for one good time at night and he still came very fast the 7th time. It was not a fun situation. Frustrating. I tried everything too, and the end result was to accept who he was. I am with someone new now have been with him for 3 years but I am still friends with my ex and we are pretty close and he tells me it is still an issue at 35 years old. Its just how someones made. If you want to be with him forever try to get ok with it .