Sex life

I just came out of a 5 year relationship last June with no sex drive. We were having sex maybe 3 times a month at the end of the relationship. Now I am in a relationship and I’m highly attracted to him. My ex made me feel like a slave and not attractive at all. Any advice you could give? any positions you would be willing to share? My ex and I’s sex life was horrific and he was only interested in one position to get him off.