Am I easy if I let a guy finger me on the second date?

Question

I was raised strictly religious, and am just coming into myself sexually. I just want experiences and opinions, cus I know every guy is different. But in your experience, is this something he’d probably be exposed to? I don’t have any long term goals in mind with this person either, so I’m not worried about getting in a Relationship or not, I just wanna make sure he’ll respect me after. Do guys often get this sort of behavior? Thanks in advance!

Answer

No you’re not “easy.” Everything surrounding sex is a construct designed to shame women, specifically. I’m not sure of your gender of course, but nevertheless, you can do literally whatever you want in life and you don’t have to label it. You’re living your life the way YOU want to. No matter how you were raised, you’re an adult now (I assume) and you don’t have anyone to answer to. As long as you’re doing what YOU want and what YOU are comfortable with— that’s all that matters. Take things at whatever pace you want and you don’t need to feel bad about it. No one else is living your life. It’s YOUR body — do with it as you please!!! :)

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If he doesn’t respect you after that’s on him and should evaluate why he thinks like that. 
However I know plenty of men that do not think like that at all. I don’t believe in “being easy”. It takes 2 so as long as you’re both consenting adults it doesn’t matter and you should just relax and have fun.

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I’m sorry to say… that’s a green light that your easy.

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No, that doesn’t make you easy.

Am I easy if I let a guy finger me on the second date?

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