So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and has always told me about his ‘type’ since we started dating. He always says I’m the exception because I’m different from his exes. He tells me he had his “blonde” phase when all he dated was white girls with blonde hair. Keep in mind im hispanic with brown hair. Today I was talking to him about me never dying my hair and he comes up and the first thing he says to me is “If you dyed your hair blonde, I would spoil tf out of you.” At that moment I felt like crying and hours after I started crying even more (not in front of him). Am I in the wrong for feeling and reacting like this? When I told him he had hurt my feelings he said it was just a joke but I didn’t took it that way. He apologized but I don’t know what were his real intentions behind that comment. Should I bring this up in another conversation with him?