When is it our turn? 😔
To all the women hoping and praying for a baby this year, I feel you and I see you! March will mark our one year anniversary of trying without success… it doesn’t hurt any less each month. To all the women who are secretly hurting, I understand and I stand with you! I know it’s hard when friends, coworkers, and family members get that BFP that you’ve been so desperately hoping for. I’m sure we were all wishing for that Christmas miracle thinking that it would finally be our turn to see that positive test, to imagine what our perfect little one would look like, to feel him/her flutter around within our bellies, to post a cute pregnancy announcement, to display that ultrasound pic on the fridge! We hold our breath as we are waiting for that second pink line to pop up — just to be let down again when we are greeted with a stark white test. 💔
To all the women who are dealing with insensitive comments and inquiries about when you are going to start TTC and why you haven’t had a child yet, I feel for you! People dont realize how rude and triggering these comments can be.
I know it will happen for us eventually, but the longer it takes- the farther away and less achievable it all seems. I hope that everyone here is blessed with a BFP in 2022.
Sorry for the long rant my friends. I’m feeling extra sensitive about things today. I want this baby so much & frankly I’m tired of trying. Trying is exhausting … and I swear if I hear one more person who says, “Have fun with it. Don’t make it a chore.” Or “Just don’t think about it.” —- I’m going to have a meltdown. I’m trying my hardest not to make it a chore. But after almost a year of trying, when my husband and I work opposite schedules so we have to make it happen by him waking up early or me staying up super late and being exhausted at work the next day, it becomes difficult for it not to feel like a chore. 🤷🏻♀️
I’m wishing the best for every single woman out there on this TTC journey. TTC is hard and having been through this, we are warriors. Good luck ladies 🍀
***EDIT- I reposted this because since someone posted a pregnancy test pic (not allowed in this group) they moved this post to the pregnancy test checker group 🤦🏻♀️ that’s not where I wanted it. I want it in a place that it will help people going through the same thing. Like the General TTC group. ***
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.