Make this make sense somebody

I’ve been married for a year, found out my husband had dating apps and he is now going to therapy to be better because he loves me and doesn’t want me to divorce him. Anyways we’re trying to get through this but today he said there’s things he doesn’t like that he has to deal with and I said like what? He says how he’s never had privacy from me that I used to always check his phone and such. I’m almost offended and mad because he’s been unfaithful to me. He said that even before all this happened I’ve always checked his phone BUT I always found something out on his phone so he can’t even say he’s never had privacy. I don’t get it, I’m legit pissed off because he’s had privacy, hiding shit from me.

He said his therapist told him that me going into his phone is not healthy so now it’s about me going through his phone