I have been dating this guys for way over 2 years and sometimes I can't get into the mood enough to have sex. What do I do?

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I would talk to turn boyfriend about it,  by make sure that you don't make it seem like its his fault. Just explain you have a low sex drive and need some more help getting aroused. It's completely normal, and if the guy is good,  he'll get you going soon enough (;

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I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years as well and sometimes it's hard for me too but then I remember that I really love this man and he makes me SOOO happy and this is one of his many ways that he shows me that he loves me too!

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Have you had sex with him before? I have a really low sex drive and it sucks. I've been told by multiple people if you just do it eventually you will train your body to want it more...I haven't really tried it yet bc it's hard to get in the mood if you aren't in the mood!!

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When I'm not in the mood &my SO is, I just tell him that he needs to do all the work cause I'm either tired, or I just don't feel like doing it. Soooo make him do all the work!(: lol

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Maybe its just me, but I've slept around my fair share - safe, consensual sex with wonderful partners - but if I don't get wet it's because I'm not really attracted to the person I'm with. True love is this throat thickening, heart pounding, throw you against a wall and go at it sort of deal, not just 'he's nice and cares about me'. Lots of people will fit that bill. Being truly attracted and sexually charged for someone and caring about them are both needed in a lasting passionate relationship. At least IMO.

I have been dating this guys for way over 2 years and sometimes I can't get into the mood enough to have sex. What do I do?

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