Ok ok, I'm so glad I got so many responses from the "does your husband do it post" - ima drop my response now & see if I am either over reacting or my boyfriend is just broken 🤷‍♀️🤣😅🙄

I moved from the city to be with my boyfriend. Gave up my jobs, my friends and my family. Until late August, he's always worked away (2&2 or 14/7 or 10/4). I always worked like crazy as well. Always 2+ jobs until i had our daughter. Because of covid he got switched to a 10&4 so I basically was raising our kid by myself. Also because of covid I couldn't go anywhere with my daughter, no mom groups nothing so I havw no friends out here. Our daughter is 19 months & we are expecting baby number 2. Since there is only 1 daycare where we live, which has god aweful staff and coming from an educational background I've got no choice but to stay home with her. So I run a dayhome. This started about the same time my boyfriend started working around home (he's home most nights and timing can be anywhere from 5pm-730pm). I have 6 kids everyday Monday-Friday 730am-530pm. He says he's tired because he has a very physical job 🙄 oh ok. (I'm almost certain he thinks I do nothing but whatever)

During the day aside from playing with the kids, preparing crafts & activities I also cook 2 meals for them & 2 snacks. I have older kids so I don't get a "break".

Here's a run day of the things I do daily:

- sweep and mop the floor after each meal

- do the laundry & put it away

- do the dishes 2x a day. Sometimes 3 after dinner stuff.

- make breakfast, lunch and dinner

- potty train our daughter (he tries to keep her in a pull up)

- clean the both bathrooms

- Empty garbages

- Feed the chickens and collect the eggs

- feed our dog

- make the bed

- Vacuum dog hair from every room

- wake up our daughter and get her ready for the day

- Bathe our daughter and get her ready for bed

- Get her a bedtime snack

- most nights, I put her to bed.

- clean my dayhome space and get ready for next day.

On top of this:

- make all the appointments and take her or our dog to them.

- if shes sick, I close the dayhome & stay home with her (he's never even considered missing work to do so)

-take our daughter to gymnastics every Tuesday

- wake up in the middle of the night if she does (he says he can't hear her 🙄)

- do most of the grocery shopping (if he's off early enough he will)

- take out the trash if he hasn't

- shovel the deck if it's snowed that morning(this year he has done it maybe 5x)

- switch out clothes, buy clothes etc

- I get up in the mornings, even on weekends. And if I want to sleep in I have to wake him up first so he can get up.

I'm dead exhausted. If I want him to help with any of that I have to ask. If he sees the floor needs sweeping he doesn't do it. If the toilet bowls are gross, he leaves it & I end up doing it. If there's a laundry basket full of clothes he "doesn't think to do it" so it'll be left there unless I say something, if it's bath time I have to tell him hey time to bathe her, if it's bedtime I have to tell him.

I have a broken man, I'm sure of it.