Is it bad considering he works but doesn’t read up on pregnancy bringing children up?.. I am at wits end with arguments. Have suggested counselling he hates it, have attended mums matter and completed the course and now started a parenting course. I’ve had a years therapy. Am trying to heal and cut off toxic family members. I really don’t know what to do? I’m sick of arguing with him. Though he’s from a small town, he had a great rural upbringing and went to a English grammer sch. And studied business there, then came from East to study accountancy. The college closed with a year of studies left. So he is educated ??! But refuses to read up. I feel mentally disconnected and emotionally lost. I had a hand in all my cousins upbringing and two younger sisters. All of whom (as the eldest) I’m very proud but I don’t know where I’m going wrong here. I’d love to sit and talk and discuss. And engage my child after the discussions like I jus want to parent together u knw?