So its my birthday this sat and months ago i planned to go for cocktails, there was 12 people who said yes so i made a chat for it. Yesterday i put in there ‘can you all let me know if your coming as i need to pay the deposit’ and 2 people replied. Everyone viewed it but never said anything. I feel so shit that my so called friends cant tell me a short yes or no especially since im forking out £100 for them to just be there. Do i need new friends or am i over reacting? It just seems ungrateful and shitty to me :/