I know my husband does stuff around the house but honestly nights like this I don't think he does anything and if I ask he does it in his sweetest time spending most of it on his phone...we have a 5, 3 and 6 week old. We were told our 5 year old maybe held back if he doesn't learn his ABC...he's smarter than he let's on but he just keeps guessing letters till we tell him. So on top of taking care of a baby that my husband thinks is my responsibility till he can crawl bc he's more connected to me and I have no job I have to work with my 5 year old on his letters and it's like pulling teeth as well as dishes and bottles and laundry and making sure our second child gets some time...I just wish I felt he was doing more around the dang house than sitting on his butt...he sleeps but is still tired after sleeping bc he doesn't breath while he sleeps and he doesn't care bc we are to the point where I'm sleeping in a different room bc of his snoring and have told him he needs to see a doctor but he still doesn't. So he just sits around there are times he's with one of the kids but frankly he's on his phone and the kid is next to him watching TV oopy doo on him...then tonight he made a Crack listing off things we had to eat in case I didn't want to cook anything bc he knows I don't bc honestly who can cook a decent thing with a new baby and kids who want ur attention (he works nights)they have asked daddy if mommy still loves them and daddy finds that funny and to point it out to me...i just feel like I'm drowning today...ive had not one moment to myself as I type I see a full sink of dishes after doing a full sink of dishes today and bottles and laundry...but heaven forbid I bring up I feel like I'm drowning to him that he's not doing anything bc he works and I don't and sleep all day cracks...and all I get from him is jokes or puns of wanting sex from me like seriously when I feel like I'm doing everything in this house....he makes the messes I clean them up he puts his dang pants on the floor I pick them up and he finds it funny I'm frustrated...im just drained. Anybody else?